Saturday, July 31, 2010

~ Nak lelaki baik kena jadi baik dulu.. faham??

p/s: quoted from a blog. nice post actually. sje nk share. hee ;D



i said this once on my facebook shoutout: nak lelaki baik kena jadi baik dulu'. but that statement swings both ways, actually, guys... nak perempuan baik kena jadi baik jugak dulu.

and baik itu maknanya luas. but as a muslim, the definition should be easy for us, though to execute it is one very tough job to do. like hlovate said through one of her characters in her book, (yeah, yeah, hlovate lagi. but then, i learn a great deal from her books, so sue me.:)) baik pada definisi Islam mudah saja: buat apa yang Allah suruh, tinggal apa yang Dia larang. senang je nak menyebutnya. tapi nak membuatnya?

Allah suruh sembahyang, kita kenalah sembahyang. Allah kata jangan tinggal sembahyang, jangan la kita tinggal sembahyang. Allah dah bagi kita kemudahan untuk sembahyang jamak bila bermusafir, bila sakit, don't give stupid excuses nak jadikan negeri mukim la apalah sebagai alasan untuk kita melengahkan suruhan Tuhan yang satu itu. jangan putarbelitkan kemudahan yang dah diberi. i need a man, a good man who can remind me when it's time to solat, not a man who didn't even ask where he can solat because he was too busy being obsessed for seeing me.

because i'm trying to be good. so i need someone better who can guide me. someone with a strong foundation of faith. and sembahyang 5 waktu itu is one of the pillars to strengthen our faith. tak boleh tinggal. tak boleh dilengahkan. tak boleh diambil mudah. macam nak bina rumah. kalau kita buat sambil lewa je tiang seri rumah tu, boleh ke rumah tu nak berdiri teguh melindungi kita? that is a rhetorical question, you know the answer yourself.

Allah suruh jangan mendekati zina. jangan 'mendekati zina'. tapi most people ambik perkataan yg last tu je. perkataan yg sebelum tu tak dihiraukan. mendekati. it's like us walking towards a destination, say, a mountain. it's either we walk or we drive, or we cycle, skate, whatever, we'll come closer to the mountain. mendekati means to come closer. and there are actually various ways that people can come closer to zina. the simple example is dating, duduk berdua-duaan. sebab Rasulullah s.a.w dah bagi warning siap-siap, duduk berdua-duaan antara lelaki dan perempuan bukan muhrim, ada yg ketiga mencelah sekali. dan yg ketiga itu memang suka je nak manusia ni buat benda-benda terkutuk. Sebab tu Allah larang mendekati zina. bukan zina saja. jalan ke arahnya pun dah Allah larang. sebab bisikan jahat si syaitan itu ada di mana-mana. waktu kita leka, waktu kita tak khusyuk solat pun. everywhere.
and i read in an article that Rasulullah described zina tu ada byk bahagian. zina mata, zina hati, zina telinga, zina mulut. zina mata bila kita tengok lelaki or perempuan bukan muhrim kita. sekali boleh lagi, the second and the third and the forth and so on lepas tu biasanya dah disertai dengan niat lain. sebab tu Rasulullah bersabda; 'tundukkanlah pandanganmu, sesungguhnya itu lebih baik bagi orang-orang yang beriman'. watch your gaze, guys and girls.

zina hati apabila kita teringat, rindu, terbayang-bayang, angau. zina telinga apabila duk asyik masyuk melayan kata-kata cinta. ni semua pada yang bercinta belum berkahwin ye. kalau dah kahwin tu, semua dah halal, no problem. zina mulut, bila kissing (nauzubillah...), bila meluahkan kata-kata cinta pada org yang tak halal kita meluahkannya. i love you, aku sayang kau, i miss you, whatever else... nauzubillahiminzalik...

i don't want a man who falls easily for these madness, ya Allah, help Your slave.
i don't want a stalker. i don't need one. stalking me is one thing. but stalking my siblings is one whole different thing altogether. that is the last straw. that makes up my mind on what i think about you. and it's not going to be a good news. adding my sister on your friend's list when you don't know her and more importantly she doesn't know you is a very bad move. how can i trust you're not going to add any more unknown woman in the future?

please la, guys and girls... don't fall for these madness. yup, internet itu satu kemudahan. facebook itu satu kemudahan. yeah, utk berhubung dengan kawan2 yg kita dah lama lost contact. that was the basic point. that was the claim you read everytime you want to login. don't abuse it. jangan main taram je nak add orang and approve orang yang kita tak kenal. we heard on the news fraud cases online countless time. don't fall victim to it. because people can say whatever they like on the net. yg bermulut manis tu makin bertambah berbalang-balang gulanya berkata-kata.

i don't need a sweet talker too, ya Allah. not when i'm not married to him. i don't want to fall victim to that. yeah, yeah, i can be terharu, i can cry because i'm touched (i'm a woman, still), but what kind of a guy becomes happy when someone he claims he loves cries for him? what happen to you jump i jump, you happy i happy, you cry i cry? now, it's you cry for me, i'm happy. hah, that is a childish pride, and i don't want, i don't need a child. i need a man.
i need a man who can guide me to Him, protect me from satan, wash away my tears. because i'm not perfect. baru je pun lagi mencuba nak jadi baik. in it's truest meaning. tengah merangkak lagi. i need a man who can give me a strong hand so i can get up and walk and run. and by strong hand i mean strong foundation. terjaga semuanya yang patut dijaga. buat apa yang disuruh, tinggal apa yang dilarang oleh Tuhan. easier said than done. yeah...

sebab hidup di dunia tak lama pun lagi. dunia dah nak kiamat. tandanya dah ada di mana-mana. negara yang tak pernah terkena earthquakes tiba-tiba bergegar, yang tak pernah banjir tiba-tiba dipenuhi air. mana pernah selama hampir 26 tahun i live in this world, european airway tiba-tiba tak boleh dibuka? kelabu, kelam, gelap, tak nampak apa-apa. mana pernah terjadi sebelum ni sampai beratus-ratus flights tertunda tak boleh take off? please... ambik la pengajaran... kiamat dah dekat, yes, it's a scary fact but tu memang ketentuan Tuhan. memang confirm akan berlaku. dah disebut berulang-ulang kali dalam al-Qur'an. tiada sangkalnya lagi.

dunia dah tua. i read somewhere that when Rasulullah went for Israk Mikraj, Allah showed him the age of the world. waktu tu pun dunia dah diibaratkan seperti orang tua yang dah bongkok. dan itu lebih seribu tahun yang lalu. sekarang? Wallahualam...

Ya Allah, mohon bantulah hamba-hamba-Mu ini kembali ke jalan-Mu, ya Allah. Amin.

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